What do you WANT from your life? Have you sat down and created a VISION for where you are headed, what you want to have, what you want to do, what you want to create? Do you have a savings plan, a retirement plan, a budget to pay off your debt? Do you have family vacations you are definitely going to take, physical aspirations you are definitely going to accomplish, or maybe even on a smaller note you have a room in the house you are going to reorganize or paint or decorate a certain way? Are you stuck in today . . . waiting for PERFECT?
Guess what? PERFECT is probably not coming the way you think.
I know for me, there are so many things that I DON'T DO because I want them to be PERFECT! I'm the "all or nothing", "success or bust" girl. The QUEEN of it, actually! For example:
- I miss dating my husband! I know it would be SO GOOD for us to get out once a week and have a fantastic date night. But it's so hard (and so expensive) to plan something every week. And then we have to find a babysitter, and make sure the kids are in bed. And then I have to think of something besides dinner and a movie that I can afford. Hmmm . . . maybe this is why we don't date? Perfect is Good; But DONE is Better!
- I have a friend who sent me an e-mail weeks ago. I keep meaning to reply to her - because she is SUCH a great friend that I don't want her to think I don't have time for her. But I don't ever have time to write ALL that I want to write - or all that she asked me about - so instead of "jipping" her on a so-so reply, I wait until I can write the reply she deserves . . . . until it drifts to the bottom of my e-mail list and I forget it's even there. Perfect is Good; But DONE is Better!
- I want to eat organically across the board! I want the BEST nutrition for me and for my kids! I want to get a PERFECT workout in every single day - exercise 45 minutes, make sure I have the right mix of cardio and weights in my week. I want to be sure I incorporate ALL of Bob Harper's rules . . . and everyone else's who has had success, for that matter. And today - I just don't have the energy for a 45 minute workout, so I'll be sure to wake up tomorrow and get that workout in. Because I really want it - I KNOW it matters! Tomorrow . . . I'll eat better, follow all the rules, have the PERFECT exercise routine . . . order ALL of the supplements I need to enjoy optimal health and make sure I am going to be healthy and happy for years to come . . . tomorrow . . . . Perfect is Good; But DONE is Better!
- I want to keep a family journal. The kids say so many cute things every day. They are growing so fast! I don't want to miss ONE THING while we are living it. And pictures - you HAVE to have pictures to go with it. I need to be better about taking pictures and posting them on my blog and sharing them with other people. I am going to do ALL of that . . . for each child . . . . PERFECT is Good; But DONE is Better!
2 comments:
http://www.niftydateideas.com/
http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex/articles/6472/free-things-to-do-with-your-partner-on-date-night
http://blog.neu.com/2010/12/09/30-free-things-to-do-on-a-first-date/
http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2008/07/17/100-things-to-do-during-a-money-free-weekend/
Thanks, Nancy! Great ideas!!!
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